Anyone else think relationships are dead in this generation?

#21

Well, that depends whether it’s during sex and consented or not.

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#22

Keep the faith, man.

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#23

I hear this sort of thing from my brother (13 years younger than me), but I think these things have always been this way. Divorce was just not an option in the past, so people probably stayed in marriages without actually having a relationship with the other person. Cheating has definitely always been a thing. It’s just the way social media puts it all out there for us to see that has changed.

Relationships take reciprocal work. Most people need to understand they aren’t special. Your only going to find a meaningful relationship if you try to find someone that shares your interests. Hard pill to swallow, but if you want to be sexually attractive, you must take care of your body and mind. That means hygiene, fitness, and education. Would you find someone dirty, out of shape, or uninformed as attractive?

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#24

Well I hit the last two XD

#25

It’s pretty much a combination of the dating scene being filled with Hook up apps and thus “gameing” the entire relationship stuff, risks of toxic relationships from horror stories (Andrew Tate, etc.), and also generally additional risk factors being brought front in center like divorce, child support and costs in the event that you have a child in the relationship.

The cost of living is only going up. Imagine having a child, now imagine the relationship going sour over a single argument and now you (as a likely male, could still happen as a woman but likely a man) have to pay child support in court while not even seeing the kid.

I, like most likely any other person here would definitely love to have that kind of connection with somebody; but there simply is too much at stake at the end of the day to even entertain that, and that’s besides the common shit of attractiveness and compatibility.

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#26

Well… No(?)

I mean, just be selective with the people you meet and be sure to know well the person with you want to start a relationship.

It’s not a “generational thing”, just be sure to choose as a partner someone decent and be yourself a decent person as well,
and you’ll see there won’t be any cheating or any breaking over stupid stuff.

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#27

so the forum has finally become an incel breeding ground, was only a matter of time

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#28

I recommend eating the liver with some fava beans and a nice chianti.

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#29

Nah that’s complete and utter cope. Your brother is right.
You’re literally competing with infinite options so the door is always open, not to mention divorce benefits the woman so if she gets bored of you lol glhf. Absolutely an uphill battle.

Previous social circles consisted of the workplace, hometown, and maybe a bar lmao.
Now its like every other male within several hundred miles.
Statistically that’s insane.

I believe in you guys though.
I’m not going to give you false hope, if you let her keep her Tinder premium its probably already over.

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#30

Lmao let her keep her Tinder premium. If you let her keep her Tinder premium then you’re asking for the Reconi Trakeri of dating

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#31

like the destruction of the family unit wasn’t enough we present you with the contact info and resume of every peen and vagus in your state good luck

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#33

🤣

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#34

I’m telling ya, stick your dick in crazy. It’s the only way to go.

#35

Fucking incels

Take a shower, put some cologne, shave and go to a bar. Try to make eye contact with people and try to be funny and not a weirdo saying socially awkward shit. Some drugs may help with this.

Is not that complicated to be a decent human being and establish a friendship/relationship with someone.

Only people who have issues finding deep connections are people either looking in the wrong place, weirdos, or people not interested in them in the first place.

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#36

For you or for the potential victim?

Also, what kind of drugs?

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#37

For you

Alcohol, weed, cocaine, anything that elevates the mood and confidence.

No people… Do not ruffie anyone… That takes you from weirdo to a fucking social menace that needs to be put down like a rabid dog

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#38

I was just messing with you. xD

Believe it or not, I was always str8 whenever I would come up to a girl.
I saw dudes drunk coming up to some random girls and they would look at them disgusted.
I saw that a milion times, they would literally be like “go away from us”. If you’re confident, you don’t really need any lifters.

Ruffies, I didn’t see that being done to someone. Maybe in US that’s a thing, never been there, but over here, nah.

#39

Yeah that helps with getting a one night stand. That’s not too hard.

@John_Wick_316

But you two cant really ignore the fact that peoples thoughts on relationships have changed.

People do seem to get bored now with relationships.

So why call people incels simply because they’re pointing out that shit has change?

You’re absolutely right, just strike up a conversation and be chill.
Unless you know how to spit game, just be cool about shit. Its just a conversation. If something happens, then good.

But when it comes to relationships, theres a lot of bullshit now a days.

So I’m not sure why you two are so angry about this post.

#40

If you can’t turn a one night stand into a meaningful relationship then that’s your problem.

I had many one night stands in the past and roughly 80% of them wanted to be in a committed relationship. I was a decent fuckboy and told them I wasn’t ready for it. Some appreciated the honesty and left, others had me as a booty call until they met someone else. Most are still friends with me.

If you constantly blame others and/or the environment you are in instead of looking inward and considering you might be doing something wrong, you’ll never get out your problem

BTW I met my wife 11 years ago. A “one night stand”. Moved in with her a week later. I was jobless and broke.

There’s no one to blame but yourself if you can’t even land one relationship that lasts more than a few weeks