this is not what toxic means, this is most likely your interpretation on events you’ve heard that are toxic
This is text book toxicity and what we’re talking about, It has negative effects thus is classed as toxicity
For some reason it seems like you tie trauma and toxicity together. Toxicity doesnt need trauma to be toxic, i will accept that the term toxic has a few interpretations but non are exclusive to the extreme of life long trauma,
toxicity like many things has a spectrum

