Update tomorrow?

#81

Please do it! you don’t need to have custody just tell him you love him!

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#82

It was the last thing I told him years ago before I left and didn’t return

Not that he remembers

#83

Then keep doing it what’s stopping you

#84

He’s better off without me

At least until he’s grown

Just look what happened to you when you took my advice

#85

No he misses you every day and if you don’t he’s going to grow up to become a dysfunctional human being trust me I would know

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#86

That is on his mother and grandparents not me

I know all about being a dysfunctional human trust me

I appreciate the sentiment but it simply wasn’t meant to be

#87

Well I tried that’s your choice but hes going to grow up to hate you

#88

I’ve made peace with that not that I like it but as they say

It is what it is

#89

I’m pretty sure the studies say that he’s not better off without you. You should WANT to try. I think once you care for someone, you also strive for self-improvement as well.

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#90

Not if your choice hurting another human being

#91

I tried telling him he’s not listening

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#92

That’s ok. As long as he knows he can always change his mind

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#93

He’s a stubborn one I’ll give him that

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#94

Ita not easy. You have to make nice with the mum. There’s a lot of responsibility. You have to work in yourself. You have to learn. He does do a decent ‘parenting’ job here with spreading information and humor.

#95

Ya I guess your right

#96

That is a fact

#97

I’m not going to say anything else to you let’s change the subject…

#98

He has a father figure better suited for being a parent

He’ll be fine

#99

That was abrupt. Anyway, does the update become available at 12 PM PST? Or 12 PM EST? Last few times it happened i was sti at work and then there was sheetload of comments to read. Id like to be preemptive this time

#100

Ok. You know better. I’m just generalizing this, but each situation is unique