No, he’s sayin’ you don’t behave like one, though honesty can’t blame him for that. Puertoricans outside form the island are usually very helpful among their friends, where people who have lived in the island know how “mala fe” they can be.
TBH, me telling you to “shut up” is no different than when you tell your little brother to shut up because he’s just either not making any sense or doesn’t quite see the whole picture of what is sayin. And that’s been, in most instances, the case with you. Time and time and again you fail to see the big picture when we get into an argument and can’t see past your own PoV. You can’t seem to get a grasp of the implications of your statements, because you think everyone is reading your mind and know your intent. Sorry, but that’s not how things work, even more on social media, forums and emails, where you can’t even get the tone of the message. At least on voicechat you get the tone, though the body language is still missing.
I’ve been in social media for decades now. I’ve created most of my most meaningful friendships there. Almost all of them hated me at some point, because I’m crude and real and that’s not something most people like to read, or they read it on their own negative tone. Once they knew me IRL, dude… I have lost track of how many years ago we became friends.