I’m not holding against you.
I’m not really mad or anything at you. No reason to be honestly.
What Lazy would do as a community moderator.
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But I’m pushy and I know it. So I should make every effort not to push people I like away. By being willing to stop, you’ve already shown me what I needed to see.
She has to though, I would apologize in her shoes. I also see why some of you’re dialog choice make her feel like, you might be unsafe.
She really does want to give you another chance. You both realize how similar you are. I just want you to give her one too.
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You’re fine bro.
Honestly I think you’ve gotten the impression that I’m holding a bitter grudge or something.
I’m kinda not.
I just dont myself joking around or being able to be friends with them.
As for the gender thing, I’m not too comfortable with it.
Think whatever you will of me.
If they really want me to though, I might.
Since I ain’t interested in pissing them off.
I also dont see or feel the need for them to apologize.
In another case, maybe.
But since I’m not trying to be friends, it’s not needed.
All I want is for no drama.
Das it.
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After Reading all of this Thread I dont think @Lazycollinator @Fire @Slasher_Clone @Idek or anyone else needs to be a mod.
There seems to be a overwhelming issue with past topics that just cant seem to be dropped. The fact that this person stated that she was attacked in the past and tried to just leave it there and yall harped on it is slightly disturbing to say the least. Yall could have just said you know what we can agree on the fact that the entire thread topic got out of hand and we need to move past it and apologize for whatever you may or may have not said to put out the flames.
But no.
I know im not the greatest account here that comes to not trolling or attacking one’s ideas of what this game can and should be but At least I admit what I am.
This community is very diverse and we need to respect each other. If someone wants to throw their own agendas into the mix and yall disagree with those type of threads those are the ones you need to overall ignore even more so if they involve anything Political or civil rights and equality. Those threads if you want to engage with them need to have a level head.
Tbh this entire thread itself was derailed when these old topics were brought up. The past needs to stay there unless you are apologizing for said actions that took place.
Telling anyone of any race, gender or sexuality to kill them selves is petty and the midset of a middle school bully. It is wrong and needs to addressed with a perma ban and a Ip trace to remove you from the community all together.
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You weren’t there and context matters. I agree people should not be telling other people to hurt themselves, that it’s childish and harmful.
Without the conversation that happened above, moving forward the way you would like isn’t possible. It takes communication and a willingness to hear the other side. I think the two people who needed to put space between one another did just that. While neither gets perfect closure they do get a sense of why the other person feels as they do.
So I think this mattered and if it isn’t something you want to read, then don’t.
In my opinion Courier and OKH have dealt fairly with those involved and perma-bans, should be infrequent and even if justified by an action, reviewed with context in mind. They seem to do just that, I’d want the same lenience or opportunity if I lost my shit and verbal eviscerated someone.
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Lol. But what if I told you I was there? I know what I am talking about. This whole thread was derailed. She could have been ignored or worse just said you know what yeah ur right telling anyone to kms is bad and needs to be addressed.
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It’s very easy when you are emotional or emotionally invested in something to equate things as equal that aren’t. I’m not holding her comments as against her as you are because from her POV that was what she was being told.
Most people will throw whatever insult or type of insult you throw at them back at you. They aren’t actually thinking. They just ride along and reflex guides them. I’m not saying that was the case with her totally but I do think that is why it escalated to that point for her.
I’m not telling anyone they have to give people a chance to change, some people won’t. I’m going to, because I think they deserve it. Context and their responses have given me what I needed, yes I still hope she apologizes to Fire, but I’m not here to make people do things.
I also don’t want to be a mod, 😝. I want to be able to tell you to get off my dick.
(I don’t know what I’d answer if they asked)
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Get of ur dick? But what if I want a nice short ride lol jk jk. The fact of the matter is everyone is a sense is wrong and right.
She was wrong to reignite a old issue that has never been brought up in any other thread.
Yall were wrong for harping on it still
She is right for wanting equality and not to be miss gendered.
Yall were right in the way yall tried ti be respectful to a point that she was being childish for bringing up an issue that has not been one since that thread.
Everyone was wrong to continue this argument.
Tbh im glad that this thread got derailed rather than anywhere else. I already got my responses from courier. Which was awesome. So as far as im concerned this thread is free to go anywhere
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But we’ve moved passed that. That’s what this talk has been.
I really hope in the future it won’t be brought up (the argument), but I understand that people need to work through their issues with other people. I see value in the process.
PS. Stop making me sound like a damn dr.
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The one thing I dont like is how they went about it. We were having a sort of different conversation then next thing we know its highjacked
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The vaule of progress is great and all but I saw very little of that here. More mud slinging than anything
Very true. Now on a less serious note. Ban everyone who thinks the the vex mask is cool
By default it looks gross. But on certain preds and with different shaders I could see people liking it.
The one that really disgusts me is plague, aka the fucking weird basket mesh looking one. That one is never going to be bought by me. No siree!
That had more to do with being threatened by the idea that some of the potential future community mods would be bigots.
I’m as responsible as her, for hijacking your thread to hash out old drama and try and be done with it. No ones going to blame me though.
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Vexx mask is weird but I’m not willing to throw it away yet. I think it just needs armour in the same style.
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I just wanted to state where I was coming from D:
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Fire you came in after the derail
Eh i didnt feel like u derailed it. Besides she was bringing up the past too so we were justified. Idek coming in and stepping on toes tho, not so much.
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Oh. Lol I know you and I typically derail threads xD so I thought it was like that. Nvm then.
Yeah but typically the threads die while or before weve derailed them