What Lazy would do as a community moderator.

#81

I have to agree with slasher to some extent. Not to throw you under the bus as I have tried my best to try and show you that things can be good here for you and for trans people. However As much as im on your side, Im also not because you have actively taken a role in any of the drama concerning you.

Courier has been as understanding with you as he has been with everyone else. His judgements on what to do in those situations has always been fair, across the board. And honestly, I hate to say it but I think he goes a tad easier on you than he otherwise would. Because trans stuff is a very sensitive subject in today’s society. One wrong move and you are dead, But not making a move leads to a very similar fate. So he did the best he could.

That being said. As much as I agree you have been discriminated against. I am also of the opinion that the way you twist many of the conversations and arguments you have into a trans conversation, Which at times is relevant, and other times seems out of the blue, is really a big reason as to why what happens to you happens. You are practically intentionally painting a target on your back for people who are prejudiced against you to come in and attack. Then when it inevitably happens, you simultaneously cross the line with the absolutely intense retaliations, as well as play victim. Its a very delicate situation because BOTH sides are wrong.

I have tried to say this delicately before, But I am quite honestly just going to be blunt now. You are quite literally putting a kick me sign on your back and then getting upset when the dumbasses that dont have enough common sense not to actually kick you, do exactly that. Then you turn around, kick them straight in the nuts, and then play victim.

The people I have known that are trans, have matured to a point where they no longer tell anyone about it, unless someone makes a mistake. They are calm, collected, and dont make a deal of it. And they get treated as they expect to be. Because most people arent transphobic. They simply dont have the patience to put up with someone who makes the core of their identity being trans. You, like my friends, are more than just trans. Show that too.

I know ima get lambasted for this. I dont even know how to word it properly, honestly. I feel like I have to have a lawyer with his hand up my ass every time I approach this topic just to be sure Im not walking through a minefield.

Like slasher, I want you to be here, and I want you to feel welcome here. But I also want you to understand why you are being treated as you should. You cannot control others, but you can control yourself, and you can prevent the majority of the shit you have been through on here simply by changing your behavior.

Normally I would say sorry if ive offended you, but I have already told you how I feel about trans people. Ive already been as careful as possible. The ball is in your court.

Im glad you are back. Just please, Stop repeating the past.

Also edit

You didnt bring up being trans here but I can almost always tell its you, and its highly relevant to what has transpired for you.

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#82

I’d like to say one last thing.

I’d like to be your friend. No conditions or expectations, and we aren’t going to agree on a lot of things, as you are a Pred main and I have ended up a FT main (for now).

Thank you for coming back and not writing us all off.

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#83

This was the guy I was talking about on the other thread…I just don’t understand why people feel the need to make these forums the place where they get into this stuff…

#84

I dont have the energy tonight to respond anymore, because the details are incorrect, and it just goes downhill from there. It wasn’t courier who outed me. It was oldkinghamlet. Second of all the sheer irony of all this faux acceptance when that was literally taking place in a thread where someone was posting a video and agreeing with a famous anti trans figure from YouTube.

#85

Also I refuse to be considered a part of the community that also has parts of it actively debating how mentally ill all people like me are, and if they should even be given the time of day.

#86

Also there’s no logic in preemptively counting me as a part of a community just because I’m here.

#87

I can only comment on what i saw. But ive been here for pretty much everything up until this point concerning you (at least when it comes to topics you have created). You are right tho. I get courier and OKH confused because of the profile pics, but regardless of which it was I still find my statement to be accurate.

Still, when you are feeling up to it im absolutely open to discussing it again. Though id like to try and keep it civilized. So for those who are transphobic, stay the hell out of my thread please.

Which youtuber if you dont mind me asking? I dont really pay attention to the youtuber scene on here religiously. I cant stand watching the stupid ways they play most of the time.

As for being part of this community, thats fair. Im sorry you feel that way, But if you dont want to be here no one is forcing you to be. I havent seen people actively debating about trans people except in the threads you have made, but I dont lurk too much, so please, if you do have some examples link me. Id be interested to see. I do think that a lot of transphobia is only fueled by actually mentally ill people who are trans. But the same could be said for literally everything else for that matter. I dont see a direct correlation, however some people connect dots that arent there yenno?

There is logic in preemptively counting you as a part of a community because you are here. You engage with members of this forum. Does this mean that we are all one big happy family? Fuck no. We are like a bunch of cells with this game loosely tying us together into one “community”. As I said. If you dont want to be here no one is forcing you. But some of us are trying to make as welcoming a place for you as we can in our respective cells.

#88

I promise you if you vote Idek today that I will assure you this toxic behavior will be eradicated off of these forums. Starting with the banning of you account, you have brought up way too many points here and quite frankly I’m too lazy to fix it all. It will be easier to just ban you. My assistant to the community manager @DisturbedLlama can vouch for this.

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#89

Came back from a few matches.
The YouTuber in question was “Sargon of Akkad”, otherwise known as Carl Benjamin. So as to not be accused of “derailing the thread with politics” everyone… there are trans kids, and it goes way beyond crazy angry trans women like me. When someone complains about us “bringing it up here” like this here

all you’re really doing is asking why we bring it up at all. Where exactly do you want us to bring it up? Oh yeah. Nowhere, right? Trans issues aren’t exclusively pornographic or R rated by nature, and I’m sick of people acting like they are. That shit did untold amounts of damage to me, and many members of my community when we were kids decades ago. We’ve been here the whole time.
Rant over.

#90

Dude, you are not being funny in the least.
Knock it off, please and thank you.

#91

I agree, and those who don’t, their opinion doesn’t really matter all that much. Being ignorant is easy, not applying your own beliefs about rights and freedoms to people you disagree with is also easy. It doesn’t make them right, it makes them hypocrites, so don’t sweat them.

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#92

No, I refuse to entertain the idea of someone this toxic that has said the things this person has said to be in anyway deserving to be protected.

#93

Perhaps you have forgotten what this person has said to people in the past completely unprovoked but I haven’t. Stop being gullible

#94

Sounds like a you problem.

#95

Yes you wishing death on people several different times is a “me” problem.

#96

This right here. Sounds like a you problem.

#97

Yeah, let’s pretend I wasn’t immediately told to kms by several members since I started posting. “Unprovoked” is a strange way to say “aggravated into blind rage.”

#98

You complaining about being banned several times for wishing death on people, being toxic for no reason, and several other things I’m not going back through posts to find is a you problem.

#99

Before this gets out of hand i just wanna say, I will get the mods in here so god damn fast it isnt even funny. Keep it civil please, everyone.

Edit

Guess I gotta log on my pc so I can type.

#100

Their behaviour was unacceptable, but I’m for, giving those willing, a second chance.

Cancelling people does not teach them to be better people. Everyone has things or situations that can make them emotional. I’m not going to hold it against someone, who was clearly being attacked if they did lash out in an unacceptable manner. A mod has spoken to them about it and they have served their time so to speak.