What Lazy would do as a community moderator.

I actually wasn’t even banned as often, or as soon as people claim.

I made alternate accounts the moment I was being told to kms. Seriously. I really don’t care if you’re a transphobic bigoted anon with a grudge.

What I can’t stand is how many of you are lying about what when down, when, and in what order.

You’ll have to excuse me saying Courier when it was OKH, I have a hard time remembering which one said what. They’re both reasonable and I haven’t interacted enough with them to recognize how they type.

Im gonna play devils advocate for both sides here really quick.

First of all, considering @Idek you tend to be an instigator, and to some extent came in here as one right now, you really are being hypocritical.

I agree that @Come2WhingeStay4fun Has said some fucked shit in all of her threads. I get that. I also understand your frustration with the complaining about being banned. However as ive said I think that the mods were relatively just with their bans, as they were specifically for the death threats above anything else.

But thats in the past. if we keep bickering over it, no actual discussion will actually be had.

Look unless you’ve gone through some huge personality change, you’re a problem person.

You’ve claimed I’ve attacked you, when I didnt.
You’ve taken a LOT of what I’ve told to before, the wrong way. Which is an asshole thing to do.

You only care about you’re perception, and the problem with that is that youre perception is warped.

You ALWAYS think someone is attacking you even if they arent.

So honestly, unless you chilled out, and are willing to actually talk things through with ppl, when a problem arises, then I much rather you leave.

Yeah to be fair I was watching most of it, didnt get involved till the second account. so my memory on the first post is fuzzy, especially when it comes to sequence of events.

The mods aren’t even responding to me. They seem guilty to me. Overwhelmed. Like they’ve gone and realized “oh shit” this person wasn’t lying. They really were told to kill themselves since day 1.
I’ve asked to have my accounts deleted and cleared out so I can start again with their approval this time since they mentioned to me that I am not supposed to make alts without closing out accounts, but what the heck was I supposed to do? Just keep taking that heat from the get go?
And I even remember people saying I deserved what I got because of how I was when I was already reacting to some of the worst treatment a human can take. Lots of people here use the same profile icon but aren’t the same person. Which would be confusing enough even if I wasn’t in a very bad place mentally thanks to constant anxiety and adrenaline because of these interactions.

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jesus I cant keep up with this convo already lol. Ima just watch for now and step in when I have something important to say.

@Lazycollinator @Slasher_Clone

Stop going easy on them.
You forget they literally told me I was the scum of the earth and to kill myself right?
Unless they’ve changed, they deserve nothing but be told to leave.

Who I decide to protect, defend or criticize isn’t up to you, just so we’re clear.

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Im not going easy on her. I said my peace about 10 messages ago in a long ass paragraph. However, I am trying to keep this convo from getting out of hand because this is how it always starts. The past is the past. I dont condone any of it. A lot of people fucked up on both sides.

Don’t make me be an ass to you, I like you man but what they said was in response to something you said. That much I remember clearly because I commented on it at the time.
They did take what you said in the most extreme way but for good reason, she doesn’t know you and it mirrored the exact type of threats trans people face daily.

I don’t care if you are scum of the earth to me is the thing Fire, because you’re who I remember telling me I must have deserved it all from back then. There’s someone else with your icon who I confused you for. I’d already been told to kms in many different ways already. At that point in time you made your beliefs, and your values quite clear. I could say all the same things you’re saying about me back at you. I don’t owe you change. You should have stayed away from me. You should still stay away from me.

Fire, you weren’t exactly eager to condemn the people telling me to end myself well BEFORE I told you to kill yourself. Don’t forget that.

As a side note…is there NOT a way I can just cut any ability for us to interact? Obviously they are among a large enough group of people who expect me to kiss up to before they treat me with any kind of basic human dignity.

I wont talk to you if you dont want me to, but the problem is you start shit with everyone else.

I dont care so much about what you said before in a typical sense.
But I know how you are.
And the moment you think someone is attacking, you’re going to start shit.

For your sake, I hope you’ve changed.

Actually I do believe you can “Ignore” users. Not sure how it works though

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“Let’s stop talking about how you were mass encouraged to kill yourself, from day 1, and make it all about your bad behavior and me” - Fire.

And the right thing to do would be to apologize, and move on. If you said it in the heat of the moment, it’s ok to take it back.

Me neither to be frankly honest 🤦‍♀️

To add to slashers comment, that goes for all of you

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