Go to a users profile, and click where it says normal at the top right. you can ignore them from there and it says what it does.
What Lazy would do as a community moderator.
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Look Iām not trying to start anything with you ok, and Iām also not saying you canāt voice your opinions or bring up the fact that you are trans; but I just feel like the way you go about it, is just to start stuff up and I just donāt get it. I got nothing against you or trans people or really anyone for that matter to be honest. I apologize if I made you feel less than in any way but that doesnāt excuse toxic behavior on anyoneās part. Thatās just how I feel on it.
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Go ahead slasher, be an ass. when it comes to that shit, I really dont care. If people take what I say out of context or the wrong way, itās on them if they want to start shit cause of it.
But if you take the time to know me you know I dont start shit with ppl for no reason and I try extensively to clear up any misunderstanding and get to a state of peace.
So I really dont care if it mirrored what they go through.
Ppl need to stop assuming the worse or letting their emotions get the better of them and not just snap at everybody starting shit.
Cause I didnāt say anything to justify them snapping at me.
Not until I saw peace was never an option.
okay, I couldnt help but giggle at that.
I have not once told you to kill yourself.
So why drag me into that?
I dont attack people.
I only start talking shit if I see peace is not going to happen.
I try my hardest to de escalate any situation or clear up any misunderstandings.
So why pin that on me?
Ya I know, but honestly I couldnāt think of a better way to put it.
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So do that now man, de escalate and move on. She isnāt your enemy, just a fellow member who had a rough go when they first joined.
Yes, she said things that it would be best to apologize for. Things take time, and other peopleās emotions donāt happen on our schedule.
PS. You could offer youāre own apologies, you know you havenāt cut her any slack since then.
Iāve seen you offer olive branches, in your comments about change. She isnāt reading it from that POV though.
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But Iām literally not talking shit or trying to instigate anything?
I even told them I wonāt talk to them if they dont want me to. But their bringing up how ppl told them to kill themselves, and Iām pretty sure I Didnt have anything to do with that.
Just wanted to make that clear.
Nah, no apology. I dont expect them or really want them to apologize either.
I dont want to be friends with them or talk to them.
I only responded to things regarding the current topic. I plan on leaving them alone tho.
I think that is all she wanted.
Yeah, I most definitely like to start things on the forums, but when I do these things I donāt wish death on people I may occasionally insult their skill and intelligence but I donāt wish death on people. But when this person comes on the forums and starts yelling at people to die and for their families to die, on 2 different occasions. Now they want to be the victim of a hostile environment that they made for themselves. Mmm no. But I digress I donāt want to make this thread int a giant argument.
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Fire, in this thread tonight I never said you told me to kill myself. You did exactly what I said you did though. How can you pretend to be honest, or even innocent being that disingenuous? You didnāt even have to be part of the original transphobic mob I dealt with, all you had to do was say what you DID say, which was that based on my behavior I probably deserved it. Which is a fucked up line of thinking. Which you keep doing. Keep trying to shift focus onto my behavior, which I remind everyone came AFTER my extreme abuse here.
Do you remember the name of the post? cuz im sick of this he said/she said bs. Ima just look up the post and link the logs
Its probably gone. I tried looki mg for it before too, to see why they hate me, but I couldnāt find anything tbh. The thread wasnt there.
Damn. might have been deleted instead of just closed
Look I just wanted to make it clear that I didnāt do that.
Thatās all.
Look you told me stay away.
If you dont want me to talk to you, then I wont.
But you just responded to me.
I dont know what you want here.
I wonder if she ignored you, and dropped that message without you being able to respond?
To know youāre not a bigot?
To have been mistaken in her initial assessment of you?
To have you show her the basic decency of using her?
Dude, there are lots of ways you could show her she was wrong.
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Those were assumptions, and I have one more.
In her shoes, I think Iād want to know who I can talk too. Not if this is a safe place, itās the internet you can turn it off, but whether itās worth the potential abuse to speak with those who are able to see her as someone who had a very bad experience and lashed out.
I think she wants to believe you are a person she could like. You are as passionate as she is.
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Slasher. They fucked up, not me.
Iām not going to be all nice and ass kiss because someone took me the wrong way.
I KNOW i didnāt do anything wrong.
You know me pretty well on this forum.
Do I actually try to attack people and start shit?
They assume wrongly with me bro.
Please, stop.
Just because you and them took what I said the wrong way doesnāt meant I should be painted in a bad light for it.
They crossed a serious line with me, and I dont mean the telling me I should be dead.
And the only reason Iām bothered by it still is because it was unprovoked.
I HATE when ppl attack me and try to make me seem like Iām the scum of the earth because THEY took what I said the wrong way.
I wish I knew how to write in a more concise manner especially for stuff like this, instead of sounding all over the place.
But Iām not appreciating how youāre talking like I fucked up man.
Itās not cool.
Belive me the similarities are haunting.
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